The Ground

Finally settled the wedding date, venue, wedding photography, and our helpers list!! 

Next to catch up on wedding photoshoot, ROM application, theme, decorations, invites, games... 

OHMYGAWD. Headache. 😫

Birthday

This is probably one of the worst and longest birthday I ever had. It happened on me, again....

I don’t know why those things happen, and I wish I could stop them. But I can’t. 

Something horrible happens to everyone. It’s inescapable. Like Forrest Gump said, shit happens. These terrible experiences differ from person to person; what’s awful to me might be easy to conquer for you. We can’t play the “one-up” game with that sort of thing. But they make you grow, and they open your eyes a little wider. You gain that perspective your parents and teachers were always telling you about. Everything you do has a consequence, negative or positive, and it teaches you something. 

Now, tell me .. how do I resolve this? 

These Days ...

Sometimes you make me wonder if two of us complement each other.

These days I think a lot... 

Thinking and wondering in silence. 

Another

Today I received a FB notification from a groom-to-be friend announcing that they called off the wedding. I was in a deep shock wondering what on earth happened? This is the 2nd friend that called off their wedding this year which makes me really scare of my own marriage. 

A relationship is fragile. The reason why we often hurt more the ones who love us most is because we do not realize this. They get hurt.  And they get hurt the most by the people they love the most.

Relationships have become fragile because we don't express our love. We take people for granted. We think that others exist for us and can 'use' them whenever we want. We don't feel grateful for the presence of valuable people in our life. We miss all the primaries and suddenly, all secondaries and frivolities appear huge. We look at faults with microscopic eyes and ignore others' feelings. We realize people's value only when they are gone from our life.

When there is unconditional love and a deep understanding, everything else will seem trivial. When it is not there, relationships become fragile and eventually break.