Another

Today I received a FB notification from a groom-to-be friend announcing that they called off the wedding. I was in a deep shock wondering what on earth happened? This is the 2nd friend that called off their wedding this year which makes me really scare of my own marriage. 

A relationship is fragile. The reason why we often hurt more the ones who love us most is because we do not realize this. They get hurt.  And they get hurt the most by the people they love the most.

Relationships have become fragile because we don't express our love. We take people for granted. We think that others exist for us and can 'use' them whenever we want. We don't feel grateful for the presence of valuable people in our life. We miss all the primaries and suddenly, all secondaries and frivolities appear huge. We look at faults with microscopic eyes and ignore others' feelings. We realize people's value only when they are gone from our life.

When there is unconditional love and a deep understanding, everything else will seem trivial. When it is not there, relationships become fragile and eventually break.